It’s been a while!

18 09 2009

So I haven’t blogged in a very long time.  It’s about time I update everyone on Me!

I am getting divorced.  It’s been a long process, but we both agree that we got into marriage too young and we haven’t had the same goals in mind.  It’s been a long tiring struggle for us both, but this is for the best.  I feel that I’ve done everything I can to save the marriage and in the end, it just wasn’t savable.  I still love Danielle very much and look forward to us being friends.  I really think that it is possible.  So I’m single now, and considering being on the prowl.  I know that I’ve needed some time of healing and I think I’m almost there.  Of course I won’t really know for sure either way until I give it a try.  I’ve let go of all of my bitterness/anger/resentment because it wasn’t really doing any good.  So I dropped it and moved on.

I took my 17 day vacation and it was absolutely amazing.  Not only was it a good time, but I learned alot about myself when I was there.  I’ve learned that I can pretty much talk to and befriend anyone.  I never knew that about myself.  I started figuring this out in Colorado when I went to my cousin’s bar and made friends with pretty much anyone I sat next to.  It was a surprising experience for me.  Then I went to Washington with 2 friends and met their families and friends.  I made 4 really good friends while there too.  Henry, Tiff, Maria and yes even Katylyn.  Good times were definitely had.  I got my tattoo as well, check it out.

New Ink!!

Also, I’ve decided that I want to move to Colorado for about a year.  Notice the “want” not I am going to.  I’ve been trying to get my ducks in a row for a while now and they aren’t cooperating.  My car has needed a good 1100 dollars in repairs.  The divorce is going to be a few hundred, as well as taxes.  Then I need to save up some money to move.  Not looking good.  Oh well, life goes on.

I’ve also made some new really good friends at work as well.  My new group of friends (John, Richie, Troye, Shea, Josie, Heather, and Scott) are awesome.  We truly sit around and talk, play games, laugh all day, and just hang out and we have an absolute blast.  Can’t ask for better friends.  Most are believers too, which is always a good thing to have fellow believers strengthening your passion for God.

So, all in all, things are a little tough, but at the same time, things are awesome.  I thank God for all my blessings and the trials He’s given me to make me who I am today.


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